hjbender:
heathyr:
heathyr:
i’m just. very frustrated as an adult on a 17+ app being treated like i’m a little baby who can’t handle adult content or curate my own experience. it’s fucking stupid
A really good analogy I read recently:
Censorship is telling a grown man he can’t have steak because a baby can’t chew it.
Also, I truly believe that the underlying problem here is that 2-3 megacorporations own like 90% of all social media sites. Unlike the internet in the 90s, where every group of fans had their own web ring or message board or chat room with rules about what content was allowed, today we’re all forced to share the same tiny sandbox and adhere to TOS designed to maximize ad profit and suffocate freedom of expression. For artists and creators, unfortunately, it’s now the primary (if not the only) way to get noticed. And by its very nature, the One Sandbox Fits All is a breeding ground for toxicity, stress, and exacerbating mental illnesses.
Tweens and adults, conservatives and liberals, Christians and Atheists, sex workers and high schoolers, people who love X show and people who despise it, are all crammed together into a middle school gymnasium by a megalomaniac principal who only cares about making money and not the well-being of the people under his roof.
It’s making us all crazy and paranoid.
In real life, the above groups would not willingly occupy the same online spaces. They’d go make their own message board or website and hang out there. X shippers would have their own hub and Y shippers would have their own hub, and they’d often be completely oblivious of each other’s presence. Dogpiling didn’t happen; there simply wasn’t a common platform on which to stage the fight. There were no 19-year-old kids screeching at 37-year-old adults for being into X kink on their own 21+ message board dedicated to X Kinks. And we were better off for it.
We must bring back decentralized online spaces like we had in the 90s. This web 2.0 monopoly circus has gone on long enough. Corporate social media—Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, Tiktok—is ruining fandom and making too many people miserable.
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